Recently, I experienced something that in all of my years of teaching and educating children
I had never experienced, neither was expecting to. EVER.
I was falsely accused of mentally abusing children.
In order to understand why this was disturbing to me, I will give a little background for you. I have worked with children all of my adult life and taught for nearly 12 years across different sectors of public and private education. I am a godmother to four, dear children, and enjoy mentoring children and young adults who have looked to me for guidance and as a source of counsel. This false accusation came from a disgruntled parent and equally misguided children. These allegations came as a result of an atheist parent enrolling her children into a school founded on "Christian principles".And this, is why I call Child Care a Dangerous Business.
Unfortunately, with so many real abuses happening in our society, and things I have witnessed as an advocate for children, I cooperated fully with the person assigned to investigate this allegation.After a thorough investigation of teachers, other students, and staffers, the allegation was proven and declared to be unfounded. I was not offered an apology. I was not offered my position back, and as a matter of fact those children are still happily gadding about with the potential to ruin another educator's record. My question to the investigator was simple: "What if this had been found as "legitimate"? Who will protect teachers and administrators from outright lies? These same children gleefully recounted to me that they were involved in the firing of another childcare worker at a previous center. This establishes a history of lying and plotting to get rid of staff who they do not like.
After seeking the Lord, I decided not to pursue a legal counter-suit for defamation of character, which I was within rights to do. In my case, God distinctly told me that vengeance is His and He would repay. The good news? These children are now formally recorded as being liars and their names will show up in the system should they ever file another false report. So, now what?
As an Educator, I want to leave you with some advice regarding False Reporting:
1.Do not answer any allegations without an attorney present.
2.Seek legal counsel immediately.
3.Communicate as much as possible in writing.
4. Cooperate with those who are doing the investigating.
5. Believe in due process.
6.Stay calm and pray. If you have done nothing wrong, it will be revealed.
7.Make every effort to follow up with the organization.
8.Check with your state's policy regarding false reporting and follow the necessary steps.
At present, I continue to have a positive relationship with my former boss who was not the decision-maker for my termination, my conscience is clear, and I have done what I can to live in peace. I am not in control of the actions of those who falsely accused me. I am only in control of my own actions.
As Leaders, we must do everything possible to live in peace while maintaining our honesty and integrity. As a Christian, I know that all things work together for my good. Even through this harrowing experience, I have learned to trust in the peace of God, the mercy of God, and operate in the patience and forgiveness that God so readily affords me. This does not mean that I have felt no grief or pain over the incident, but that I have given my future and the future of those who wrong me into the hands of the Lord. May I encourage you to do the same?
Let's Pray:
Father,
Right now there may be those dealing with injustices or false accusations. Like me, they may have been caught totally unaware by them or they may have seen their adversary slowly building a case against them in an attempt to entrap them. I thank you Father for the blood of Jesus that protects us and shields us against every attack of the enemy. I thank you that no weapon formed against your people shall prosper. I thank you that every lying tongue would be stopped and every slanderous mouth be closed. I thank you that the righteousness of those accused would shine like the noonday and that those who accuse them would be ashamed. I thank you for a forgiving heart and spirit be released to those who have been falsely accused or have suffered persecution for your name sake. Let your great grace be upon them now, to continue to stand in love and be examples in Jesus Name. Amen.
After seeking the Lord, I decided not to pursue a legal counter-suit for defamation of character, which I was within rights to do. In my case, God distinctly told me that vengeance is His and He would repay. The good news? These children are now formally recorded as being liars and their names will show up in the system should they ever file another false report. So, now what?
As an Educator, I want to leave you with some advice regarding False Reporting:
1.Do not answer any allegations without an attorney present.
2.Seek legal counsel immediately.
3.Communicate as much as possible in writing.
4. Cooperate with those who are doing the investigating.
5. Believe in due process.
6.Stay calm and pray. If you have done nothing wrong, it will be revealed.
7.Make every effort to follow up with the organization.
8.Check with your state's policy regarding false reporting and follow the necessary steps.
At present, I continue to have a positive relationship with my former boss who was not the decision-maker for my termination, my conscience is clear, and I have done what I can to live in peace. I am not in control of the actions of those who falsely accused me. I am only in control of my own actions.
As Leaders, we must do everything possible to live in peace while maintaining our honesty and integrity. As a Christian, I know that all things work together for my good. Even through this harrowing experience, I have learned to trust in the peace of God, the mercy of God, and operate in the patience and forgiveness that God so readily affords me. This does not mean that I have felt no grief or pain over the incident, but that I have given my future and the future of those who wrong me into the hands of the Lord. May I encourage you to do the same?
Let's Pray:
Father,
Right now there may be those dealing with injustices or false accusations. Like me, they may have been caught totally unaware by them or they may have seen their adversary slowly building a case against them in an attempt to entrap them. I thank you Father for the blood of Jesus that protects us and shields us against every attack of the enemy. I thank you that no weapon formed against your people shall prosper. I thank you that every lying tongue would be stopped and every slanderous mouth be closed. I thank you that the righteousness of those accused would shine like the noonday and that those who accuse them would be ashamed. I thank you for a forgiving heart and spirit be released to those who have been falsely accused or have suffered persecution for your name sake. Let your great grace be upon them now, to continue to stand in love and be examples in Jesus Name. Amen.
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